Sunday, April 20, 2008

how to be happy, lesson #2.

How to Be Happy, Lesson #2:
Cultivate Friendships.

Surveys show close relationships — more than personal satisfaction or one's view of the world as a whole — are the most meaningful factors in happiness. If you feel close to other people, you are 4x more likely to feel good about yourself than if you don't feel close to anyone. (Magen, Birenbaum & Pery, 1996)

Rekindle past relationships, and seize opportunities at work with colleagues or at home with neighbors to expand your friendship base.



I didn't write that, but I can tell you this: My two closest friends today used to be "just" my boss and an unknown neighbor (love you girls!!). :)

3 comments:

iggee said...

You rock, my friend! Hope you are able to catch some zzzzz's tonight!

Diana said...

Awwww. Awwwww. And right back at you, girlfriend. And thanks for being so understanding. Seems I've been doing a lot of leaning lately. So glad you're there.

Pam Rush said...

My girlfriends, all of varied backgrounds, sizes, ages and talents, ARE my lifeline!